My dear friends, we love you so very much,
So many of you have heard us discussing the importance of your vibration these past few years. Not one of you was taught in childhood that your actions matter far less than your energetic vibration. Only a few of you were encouraged to follow your inner compass rather than striving to please others. It is no wonder that embracing the 5D paradigm is challenging for so many of you. Today, we want to help and encourage you, explain things more deeply, and give you a new game to play to help you learn more about the power of your tuning.
Imagine that you have a dream in your heart. Imagine now that there is a movie on television about how you got from where you are now to the fulfillment of this dream. It is a lovely movie of synchronicity, joy, and triumph. We’re pretty sure you’d want to watch this movie!
Now, on a different channel entirely, there is a news broadcast. It repeatedly tells you about your past, present, and the people around you as they are now. It shares new about the world around you, as it is now. It has no understanding of manifestation. As a result, when it projects into the future, it simply rehashes the present or past. It is not so likely you’d prefer to watch this channel!
Now, suppose you have a magic tuner. When you think of something that makes you happy, you tune into the beautiful movie about your life unfolding gracefully! When you think of something that makes you feel unhappy, the good movie pauses, and you tune into the depressing news station right at a moment when it matches your own negative thoughts.
As you can imagine, on a daily basis, most of you would switch between the good movie and the depressing news a thousand times, if not more. Understanding that the good movie only plays while thinking thoughts that feel good, many of you could easily infer that you’d never reach the end! Back and forth, back and forth you go.
In reality, this is how many of you live your lives. You are the first generation to become aware of the value of your tuning. You are learning a new skill. It is reasonable to expect that you’d have to try, try, try again before learning to value your feelings and tune into things that feel better. It takes time, persistence, and practice to develop a new habit. Give yourself grace.
Now, suppose you really want to see your happy ending. Like a young child playing a video game, you start practicing your “tuning” skills. You play with your thoughts to find ones that feel good. You challenge yourself to see if you can find something that feels good enough to make the good movie start playing once again.
You start to notice thoughts that “knock you out of it.” Little by little, as frustrating as it might be at first, you learn to manage your tuning until you can watch the good movie for long stretches of time, and when you fall away from it, you become more confident in your ability to tune into the good and see it play once again.
Eventually, with practice, you become so good at tuning that you can watch that good movie to its completion.
Dear ones, your life is that good movie waiting for you to tune into it. Most of you learned to tune into the past or the present in front of you, no matter how good or unpleasant it feels. Rarely were you taught to care more about how you feel.
Can you imagine? You want a relationship, and instead of focusing on it (because it sends you into that oscillation of vibration), you challenge yourself instead to find things to love about life, to find ways to share love in life, and little by little without even trying to manifest a relationship, you tune into that good movie with all its happy endings.
You aren’t settling for feeling “just ok” even though you don’t have what you want. That resignation gets you more of the news. Instead, challenge yourself to find ways to feel good—here and now with what you have. You can use your brilliant mind to choose one of a gazillion possible good-feeling thoughts right here and now. You can notice and appreciate the sun on your face. You can marvel at the busy little bees that pollinate your crops so you can eat. You can ponder the amazing connection with millions of people who poured their love into the coffee you pour into the cup. You can sit, breathe, and receive our love and assistance.
Daily, you are surrounded by millions of small opportunities to feel good. It makes little sense to deprive yourself of the good feelings and the good movie that will lead to the good ending simply because you are upset that the good ending is not here now. You all want to be happy. Choose it now, and now, and now again, and the good movie will play, bringing you even more.
Some of you feel this isn’t fair, and we understand. However, you cannot apply human law to a universe that operates in terms of vibration and expect it to function as a human being would.
As a result, it is hard for so many of you to trust the universe to deliver your dreams. We understand. As these new concepts have been introduced into human consciousness, many of you still embraced the 3D paradigm of “doing” while trying to apply it to the 5D laws of “being.”
You learned to “fake it till you make it.” If doing so helps you achieve the vibration of what you want, we encourage this! However, you can’t fake vibration. No amount of action, fake positivity, or acting “as if” will matter if it doesn’t make you feel wonderful. Far better, as a few of you have said over the years, to “F*#! it till you make it!” Ignore any dreams you can’t feel good about and focus on things that feel better! Did we, the angels, just say that? Yes, dear ones. We say it with love, humor, and a realization that many of you will feel more inspired by shifting your focus than by trying harder to feel good about a topic you do not yet feel good about!
If you can’t feel good about the relationship you’ve been “trying to manifest” forever that still hasn’t arrived, focus on anything and everything else that feels better. You torment yourselves, trying to feel good about what does not. Look away. Turn the other cheek. Find happiness where it is easy to find, and let your vibration rise naturally.
So many of you learned to visualize, and it can be a wonderful tool if it helps you find the feeling you desire! If visualizing makes you feel worse because it makes you think more about what you do not yet have, it is better to visualize a good lunch that excites you!
You learned to make vision boards. We love them if these bring you joy, empower you to anticipate your dreams, and raise your vibration! But if you look at a vision board and think every time, “Yeah, right, it never happens for me,” then dear ones, take down the vision board and, in its place, put up an inspiring piece of art that elevates you every time you look at it!
You learned to quiet your mind and meditate, but if attempting that frustrates you, find an alternative. Listen to music you love. Take a walk. Cook a good meal. If you honestly try, each of you can find something that quiets the negativity and allows you to be present in the moment. Don’t give up and say that you can’t. You can. You just have to exercise your God-given power of choice and experiment a bit until you find your own way of feeling present and good.
You learned to be good and do good, and we completely encourage that because it is your nature to love, but when your “loving” actions cease to feel like love, then cease doing them! If you are helping an ungrateful friend, it may feel wonderful for a while, but when it stops feeling wonderful, stop doing it or find a reason to feel good once again.
So many of you have given so much you feel bitter and resentful that others don’t give back, but dear ones, you are the ones who chose to continue giving when it no longer felt good. You are the ones who chose to pour your heart more into others’ lives than your own. So many of you learned that it is “better to give than to receive” when, in reality, it is better to be in a balanced flow—filling then spilling, filling then spilling. The more you receive from Spirit, the more you want to give. The more you give, the more you want to receive from the Divine. Watch and listen to your feelings to help you stay in this flow.
As you learn to be more honest about your feelings, you will give when it is a joy, and refill the well when needed. As your vibration becomes one of giving joyfully, you will attract others who are in the vibration of giving joyfully as well. But if your vibration is one of giving because you “have to” or “should” (even when, “sigh,” you don’t feel like it), then you will instead attract others who feel equally empty and want you to give to them, as you want them to give back to you.
It is a misunderstanding to think that because you “give,” you will attract others who “give.” This would be a “law of doing.” but the universe operates on the “law of vibration.”
There is no “law of doing.” There is no law in the universe that says if you do more, the universe will do more for you. There is no law that says if you constantly do good, you’ll constantly receive good. There is no law that says if you give, you’ll receive. There is only vibrational law. No matter what you do, the energy with which you do it matters infinitely more than the actions themselves.
If you shop for shoes feeling abundant, you’ll attract more abundance than if you tithe with (“sigh”) a feeling of righteous martyrdom. If you indulge in your favorite activities with joy or explore new ones that delight, you’ll meet a partner sooner than if you trudge unhappily through online dating sites! If you love the hunt and the idea of meeting several new people each weekend and sorting through them, you could easily meet someone on a dating site, but few of you honestly feel that way. God has arranged meetings for centuries. Your “doing” is not important. Your vibration is.
If you are healing a physical condition and you love your doctors and the care they provide, they are likely to work well for you. If you mistrust doctors but love alternative therapies, those will likely work better for you. If you would rather ignore your condition and focus on other things that bring you joy, that will bring you joy and quite possibly healing, too.
What does not work is focusing on thoughts that feel bad and forcing yourself to do things that go against your grain. Even if you were to die, you would have lived happily until you transitioned happily and moved on into a blissfully happy reality. Your eternal journey can be fun now. Your eternal journey can be happy now.
The only thing that matters, dear ones, regarding what you will see in your future is vibration. Be kind to yourselves. You are courageous adventurers. You have incarnated on the earth during some of the biggest paradigm shifts humanity has seen in recorded history. You are learning to be tuners rather than doers and to allow your actions to be born of joy and inspiration.
God Bless You! We love you so very much.
— The Angels
Daily Archives: December 4, 2023
What was is no more and will never be again for you. It is the choice of others if they wish to continue the 3D roles of victim/caretaker. You are no longer interested in doing so.
Dear Ones,
Perhaps the past few days have been confusing – or not. But whatever happens from this day forward will be less confusing internally because you faced your interpersonal fears.
Many of you believe not much bravado was displayed by you or others. Yet, what transpired the past few days solidified who you are or are becoming. It is time for the next phase, which includes negating pretensions within and without.
Who are you? This is your ongoing clarifying call.
In the past, you pretended to be someone others wanted you to be. You are now claiming yourself. And by doing so, you shift your world and that of others.
Those who depend on you to care for them are becoming more independent, and those who refuse to become more independent are discovering others who better meet their needs.
This is a new world, and you are a new being. Others will either fully accept the new you or interact with those who will play your former role.
Some people might be leaving your orbit. Not because you are a terrible or selfish person, but because they want someone to take care of them and you no longer want to do so.
The next few days will be filled with emotional upheavals – not necessarily for you, but for those who believe they need other caretakers because they find you lacking.
At first, you might be emotionally hurt until you realize they are disconnecting from the needy/caretaker roles the two of you have been playing for months or years – a freedom you never expected to experience. The freedom to be.
Even though these beings may stay in your orbit of friendship or love, your relationship will no longer include your responsibility for their well-being. There is so much that will change in your inner world in the next few months that holding yourself back to care for others will seem ludicrous if it does not already. You want to fly, and those you caretake want you tethered to the ground.
Perhaps you wonder what will happen to those who refuse to move beyond their caretaker/victim roles. Nothing other than you will no longer wish to participate – forcing them to find others who will care for them or to fly themselves.
Letting go of your former life goal of caretaking others will initially seem counterintuitive and wrong. Even so, your inner urges to fly will be stronger. Similar to infants evolving into toddlers who refuse to eat solid foods. The number of adults who continue to suckle indicates that all eventually shift from nursing to solid foods. So it will be now.
Many will clamor for the old ways that no longer interest you. Others will attempt to fulfill those old ways – without joy or satisfaction. The caretaking role will rapidly fade from your life, and of those who wish to fly beyond what is known into the new world they have been creating for eons.
What was is no more and will never be again for you. It is the choice of others if they wish to continue the 3D roles of victim/caretaker. You are no longer interested in doing so.
You will likely discover that when you refuse to participate in the victim/caretaker roles, there are fewer victims or want to be victims.
You are not a terrible person, merely someone who is maturing into your true self and leaving the old world behind – not in fear or anger, but in new you maturity. So be it. Amen.
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