Dear Ones,

Maybe you fear your life is not changing for the better. That what was continues to be. Or that this transition is a cartoon image of what should be but never is.

You remember the disconnect when you initiated your transition but not the fear or horror attached to becoming you. As prophesized, your memories of bad times and experiences are fading rapidly. So all you remember about the tribulations you mastered so you could be at this point in your transition is that there were some bad times, but not that bad. In truth, many of you contemplated suicide or exiting your job, community, family, or relationships so your pain would disappear.

You mastered those pieces despite your apprehension about your ability to do so.

Now that you are on a level playing field, if you will, you expect your life to be more exotic, joyful, or playful because you forgot where you started.

Your current life is likely a miracle compared to your dark night of the soul. Yet you want more.

So it is you have transitioned.

Before transitioning, you accepted your life as this is all there is. Now you demand this and this and this.

You are a new being with new expectations of joy and fulfillment. You are not satisfied with an okay life; you want more. And rightly so. You cannot experience joy if your life is just acceptable or so painful you prefer sleep to wake time.

Perhaps you need to review your current life and then some of the writings or other documentation you created during the dark night of your soul. That dark night of the soul pain is almost inconceivable to you now, for you are at a different place where joy and laughter are expected, and pain is more uncomfortable than was true when you were of 3D.

You are a new being in a new world. And as you move further and further into that new world, your expectations will continue to shift from just okay to requiring joy.

Your fears or deeply held beliefs that your life is terrible and will continue to get worse are fading rapidly. You expect more. Expectations that are the seeds of your new you creations. You are no longer willing to just get by; to accept bits and pieces of life from others or yourself.

Many of you proclaim that you have not experienced joy. Yet, what you are now experiencing is much more pleasant than when you were of 3D. The tide has turned from fear and despair to love. A love that insists you experience this and this – not as a gift from someone who may or may not provide that gift, but from yourself to you.

You are creating daily. An indication is your expectations of what your day or near future will be like. You are no longer just getting by. You have expectations, wants, and desires. All of which you are creating whether you acknowledge that or not.

In the past, you needed to establish objectives. And once those objectives were achieved, you thought of yourself as lucky, productive, or whatever term you used internally. You did not expect every day, all day, to be filled with fun or joy.

Your expectations were created around fear. “If I do this, I will not be fired, divorced, homeless,” or whatever your fear was. Your new expectations are, “If I do this, I might have fun, feel fulfilled, or experience love.” The opposite of what you expected in 3D. And even though you likely haven’t bothered to compare new you to your 3D thoughts, the difference is dramatic.

You are now expecting better than instead of please.

You are no longer cowering in the corner of your mind, hoping against hope that your life will improve or at least not get worse than it is. You expect the best – even better. So it is. And so it will be. You are on a creation roll. A roll of joy and contentment instead of merely keeping your head above water. So be it. Amen.

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Dear Ones,

Confusion likely dominates many of your activities and thoughts. What was is not as it seems. And what is feels confusing.

So you plan for this, and it does not happen. Then, you plan for that, and the results are unexpected.

A feeling of neither here nor there.

This confusion influences both the lives of those you hold dear and yourself. Your plans change minute-by-minute, as well as those with whom you interact. Nothing is as it seems. Everything is different.

You are entering your new world. A world that likely feels confusing but is actually exciting. What was is no more. And what will be is just beginning to appear.

If your days continued as they were, there would be nothing new for you to address, deny, or accept. Because you would know how to act and react – as you have for years, decades, or even lifetimes.

So, you are being exposed to new thoughts and actions. Many of which are not as expected or even desired. You will make new decisions and take new actions.

This is your new life. And you will find joy and laughter out of the tangle of these new energies and activities. In a sense, it is like throwing up your hands to the expected and realizing with joy that such expectations are no longer possible or desired.

Everything is new – including you. You will explore new places, people, actions, and activities. Not because you have to, but because what used to be is no more.

But you will not take this sudden shift in your routine or expectations lightly. You will likely do so kicking and screaming. You built a wall of expectations around yourself that seems acceptable, even pleasant. But in reality, it is the “same old, same old.” What was is so expected and accepted, you do not have to stretch your being. Everything is in its place, including you. That is, everything was in its place.

You are a new, sparkling being with new thoughts and actions waiting for you on the horizon. A horizon you are not yet necessarily comfortable accepting.

So, you dabble in this activity and then return to the familiar. Allowing your days to be as expected, with a few new events here and there. That life, that action mode, is ending within the next few days. What was is no more, and the unexpected is what is.

Do you dare? More accurately – you will.

Your actions will shift, as will those near you. So even if you are not yet daring to dance to the new, those close to you will do so with or without you.

What daring adventure is waiting for you now, tomorrow, or next week? Open your heart and your eyes to the new. You are not in Kansas anymore and never will be again. So be it. Amen.

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Dear Ones,

Some of those experiencing inner and outer shifts believe they are being punished because they are afraid of their transition. Perhaps you have also experienced such fears.

What was is no more, so your memories are colored by joys tinged with sadness because you will never experience the same feelings again.

Such is not to indicate your memories are not valuable, but instead to remind you that your memories – even your joy memories – are tinged with fear and sadness. Nothing – not even 3D memories – can be duplicated. You have the moment or the event, and then it is over. The same will be true with your new being.

Even though many of you attempt to recreate what was – either to move through fear or to produce happiness as it once was – you cannot do so.

Some of you attempted to recreate a painful event, believing you had the power to change the outcome in 3D. Of course, such is not possible. Even if the location or the same people are involved, the seasons, the age of the participants, and the participants’ reactions then and now are never the same.

This moment only happens once in this life. It can never be duplicated entirely. So, relish every bit of your being now and forever.

That last statement seems grim. Nothing can be further from the truth. It is merely the reality of your earthly life. Experiences can never be repeated – the crux of this message. Enjoy today, this hour, this minute because it will not return. You are evolving so rapidly that what was joyful or even fearful this morning may not matter by this afternoon.

Relish every moment of every day – even your sleep time, busy mornings, or lazy afternoons.

When you were of 3D, fear could be repeated. Not in the same way with the same beings, but you could produce that fear with someone willing to play the role you required. You were the director of your earth life play. Those who participated in your life play often interacted with you, building a karmic wall that repeated fear after fear.

You are no longer of 3D, so there is no karma, and there are not yet any repeat actors. Everything, including you, is fresh and new. You have not decided who will be an ongoing character in your new life or what joys you wish or need to experience.

Each moment of your life is new. There are no repeats for the first time in your earth lives. You cannot retain subconscious memories of what you wish to experience in future lives, nor can you expect to meet the same beings lifetime after lifetime as you have throughout your 3D earth lessons.

So savor what you are experiencing, knowing there are no repeats or memories to be collected or reviewed as was true for eons of your earthly lives. You are fresh and new, as are your experiences and interactions.

Perhaps that thought is difficult, believing that someone is your earth angel, true love, or nemesis, and you want to spend more earth lives exploring that relationship. Such will not happen because this is your exploration time.

In all likelihood, you will decide that most, if not all, of your experiences, are not notable enough to maintain in another frequency, dimension, or of the earth in future times.

Perhaps you remember that we of the Universes discussed the likelihood of you flitting from adventure to adventure for some time before alighting on what you wish to explore in more detail. You do not yet have enough experience to select your future direction in this lifetime, much less further exploration in other frequencies, dimensions, or the new earth.

Allow yourself to jump from interest to interest – and from person to person, whether in long-term relationships or sporadic interactions. You are similar to an infant placing everything in its mouth to determine if the experience is enjoyable. You are a newborn in a new age. So, allow yourself the freedom to explore without concerns about longevity or future interactions.

You are flitting, as are all those now accepting their beyond-3D selves. Your past capabilities of repeating or recreating an experience in some future interaction are no longer valid – at least for now.

Relish the highlights of your new life and being, for they cannot yet be repeated, nor will those you are now interacting with likely ever be part of your future lives.

This is playtime in the most dramatic form, allowing you to select or accept what experiences you wish to enhance later when you are more seasoned. Enjoy your playtime without expectations. Allow yourself to be exposed to many activities and people so your selection is based on your joy instead of what you should enjoy.

This is a time of freedom to be. Something you have never before experienced while of the earth. Do not squander this joyful time by maintaining a memory to ensure your current joy can be re-experienced at a future date. Such is no longer possible for you are flitting instead of maintaining a position as was most often true in 3D.

Enjoy flitting instead of bemoaning how fleeting a particular activity or joy was. So be it. Amen.

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