even a person who has one relationship after another or one marriage after another can be seen as a failure in relationships by one person but another may look at that same person and think about how exciting that lifestyle must be.therefore we suggest that you broaden your definitions…See it as an accomplishment if all you are feeling right now is calm and peaceful, and see any amount of money that is flowing into your life right now as the definition of abundance.-Achieving Goals ∞The 9D Arcturian Council, Channeled by Daniel Scranton-

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
We have noticed the tendency on the part of humanity to set your sights on a particular goal that you have for yourselves and then to work very hard to achieve that goal. And all of this assumes that you will be happier, more fulfilled, more abundant, or something like that, after you have achieved your goal. The assumption is, of course, not always accurate. Sometimes you will achieve a goal and you will have more abundance, and then it will be time to set another goal, because you will want that feeling again.
You will want the feeling of satisfaction. You will want the feeling of accomplishment. You will create your sense of self-worth based upon whether you are able to achieve the next level of success by your own definition. Less of you than we would like to see are living your lives according to the joy that you feel in the moment. Very few are starting from a place of joy, or satisfaction. Instead, you are seeking it, as though it is contained in something outside of you.
You will always be the experiencer of that joy, that fulfillment, and even that abundance. You can have a billion dollars and look at someone who has twenty-five billion and feel poor by comparison, or a child can have one dollar and think that he or she is rich. It is truly all relative and all created by definition. Reality is what you make of it. Reality is how you choose to experience it in the moment, and so, if you are looking to the achievement to give you what you want, we recommend getting what you want first, and then deciding what it is you want to do from that place.
Get into that state of happiness, love, freedom, or abundance, and then see what you feel inspired to do, and we guarantee you that it will be more satisfying because you are doing it from a place of not needing to do it. We want to see more of you seeking out those vibrations by going within you and letting go of your attachments to someone else’s definition of success or abundance.
Even a person who has one relationship after another, or one marriage after another, can be seen as a failure in relationships by one person, but another may look at that same person and think about how exciting that lifestyle must be. Therefore, we suggest that you broaden your definitions and you allow for any little accomplishment to be something to celebrate. If you are living, right now, in a pain-free body, celebrate that. See it as an accomplishment if all you are feeling right now is calm and peaceful, and see any amount of money that is flowing into your life right now as the definition of abundance. And you will live more joyously from moment to moment.
We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”