Dear Ones,

You are in the midst of a wild ride without much comfort. What you wish for is the ability to know when and how you will react at any moment. Such is impossible during this ride because you will grasp a bit of excitement here, fear there, and boredom over there. Nothing is as it was, so even though you will attempt to repeat what was once right for you, it or they will likely feel lifeless.

You are evolving so rapidly that what was appropriate this morning will likely not be by this evening. Amid this inner upheaval, you will find new interests seemingly popping up from nowhere to help you explore more areas than you thought possible.

You will also be easily bored, so you will jump from one activity and person to another—perhaps with some inner shame or even fear. The person you were in 3D was more cautious. New you sometimes seems like an erratic child—”I want this, no this, and this.” A child in a candy store with the freedom to select what they wish when they want 

Will you become ill with all the choices available, as is often true of children in a candy store? Perhaps, but it is more likely that you will be bored before becoming ill. The multiple options now available are not necessarily your final choices but, instead, choices enabling you to know that your options are no longer limited to those offered throughout your 3D lives.

Every part of your life is up for exploration and reconfiguration. 

Your explorations will not be as overwhelming as you perhaps now expect, for just as new options have opened for you, so have new skills. Instead of becoming overwhelmed, you will discover an ability to flit between the many options and select those that are most interesting today – but not necessarily tomorrow.

If you return to thoughts of a 3D infant’s evolution, you will remember how a rattle was extremely interesting one day and learning to walk the next. So it will be for you. Multiple areas of interest and expertise will evolve as you evolve emotionally and physically.

The phase you are now entering is a sort of welcome, allowing you to review your options over and over again as you mature into your new being. The next few days are not a punishment but, instead, a broadening of your knowledge, allowing you to select what is right for you at that moment and discarding that which no longer serves you.

In a sense, you are shedding your old skin and adapting to skin with new options, a skin that will also be shed as you mature further into new you. 

Even though that last thought sounds ominous, it is little different from what was true for 3D you as you matured from infant to adult and then to senior—shedding your skin and interests with each passing day. You could not evolve from a 3D infant to a senior without many stages in between.

So, allow yourself to evolve at the pace that is right for you, as well as explore the interests and activities that help you along the way.

This is a new world, and you are a new being with phases and interests that have little to do with who you were in 3D—just as an infant has little in common with its senior being. So be it. Amen.

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Dear Ones,

Slowly but surely, you will pull away from 3D words and actions. Not because they are wrong for 3D, but because they are wrong for you.

This transition is not, about and …, but about this and only this. What was, including 3D you, is no longer. What is now is shifting you inside and out, as well as your interactions and, therefore, your culture.

This shift is not localized in one portion of the Earth. It is global.

Even so, the concept of what was is no longer does not seem to be displayed in your outer world. Wars, anger, insults, and angst seem particularly obvious at the moment. Such is so for two reasons. Even though you have always been enmeshed in similar thoughts, activities, and fears throughout every Earth life you experienced, those activities seemed logical, even right. Such is no longer true for you and millions of others. So you are horrified, even angry, as each new 3D action is activated.

We of the Universes indicated throughout this transition that those who wished to maintain their 3D identities even though that world was closing would become more strident and appear more substantial than they are. This is a time similar to that expressed in The Wizard of Oz. Dorothy and her companions are approaching the Wizard’s location, filled with fear and trepidation. Only to discover that the Wizard has no power, merely showmanship. And so it is throughout the Earth now.

Those who continue to scream and create fear have not yet had their curtains pulled back – that will happen within the next few months. This calendar year is about ignoring the fear displayed and claiming your personal path – as was true for Dorothy, as well as her companions.

For those of you who continue to believe the words of those who claim to be The Wizard, fear and anger will simmer for a few more months. Those of you who know who you are now or are evolving into, will ignore those who do not wish to evolve. Because they are no more a part of your new world than the Wizard was of the new lives of Dorothy and her companions.

There is no need to eliminate anyone or anything other than your fears that all is lost. Indeed, all is being found. In fact, you are more likely to be in the Dorothy phase, where she merely needs to click her heels together, than the phase of entering the Wizard’s lair.

Even though recent media news suggests you should be fearful, your expected fear is slowly, in your mind, and rapidly, in ours, disappearing as you begin to realize your new powers and interests.

Ensuring those promoting 3D fear are removed from your world is becoming less important than discovering who you are.

Even though it might appear as if you are merely discovering where the Wizard lives, in truth, you are ready to click your heels together to create the path that is right for you. And just as was true for Dorothy’s companions, you will discover that those you were once close to will have a different path that might or might not interact with yours.

It is not that those who create a different path than yours are bad or no longer in your life, but instead that they are free to create the best path for them, as is true for you. And since no two paths will be the same, there will be some adjustment for many as they relish their freedom to be. Just as Dorothy created wonderful friendships she fondly remembered but had no need to continue once she realized she could create the life that most fulfilled her heart.

So it is and will be for you. So be it. Amen.

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Dear Ones,

You are not in 3D anymore, so those issues that feel out of control are of little consequence because you now have the skills to jump through or around them. But your solutions will not necessarily be 3D.

Many of you are concerned about financial issues and hope that a lottery ticket or some long-lost relative will provide the answer. Solutions that were appropriate in 3D are not quite right now.

Perhaps you do not care if it is a 3D solution or a solution you have not yet thought of—you just want an immediate resolution. What was once correct or right is no longer. So redirect your energies to new solutions instead of the outdated, tired solutions you once dreamed of.

Open your mind and your heart to the new. Place your dream into the ethers, knowing your solution will not be of an expected nature but instead of your new world.

Many of you are now clamoring that such a thought is airy-fairy, and you need rent or food money now. We of the Universes will reiterate that what was is no longer including your solutions to vexing issues. Instead of continuing to dream in 3D, open your perspectives to the new.

Of course, the question becomes, “If you do not yet see or sense the new, how can you create a solution?” Our Universal response is, “Place your need in the ethers and discover what you create to solve it.”

This is a new time in a new life, so you do not yet have the physical images or descriptors as you create the new within your current physical being.

You can create whatever you need. But what you create now will likely not be what you thought you would create, for this is a new time with new answers.

Perhaps a look back will help you understand. As a young teen, you likely had a crush or deep interest in someone who did not reciprocate your interest. Even though you were devastated then, hindsight tells you that the relationship would have been inappropriate for the long term because the two of you had such divergent interests.

So it is now. You dream of young teen solutions despite becoming a new young adult with abilities far beyond what you now imagine.

Many of you do not care if it is a 3D or beyond 3D solution. You merely want a resolution as quickly as possible so the tension and fear disappear. It will – once you release the need for a 3D solution.

Relax into your new being. Do not worry about the right words, thoughts, or actions. Merely place your need into the ethers, allowing for new creative solutions you would have never discovered if 3D solutions continued to materialize.

Let go. Relax. All is wonderfully well in your life as you accept your new being with its amazing new skills. Most important for this message is the ability to discover and accept new solutions to 3D concerns. So be it. Amen.

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Dear Ones,

It’s time to negate your 3D beliefs that someone somewhere needs to care for, protect, and save you. You are it.

You have creation skills, dimension, frequency, and time shift capabilities, and the wisdom of the ages is within you. You are the most powerful being the Earth has ever hosted.

You are no longer only Brenda, Madison, or Tom. You are a glorious being of the Universes who can solve problems, create new worlds, and travel wherever you wish to create what you need.

Perhaps you believe those Universal words are similar to the “snake oil salesmen” of the 1800s Earth. What we of the Universes are relaying might be true for someone, but not you because you have limited skills. You have tried to create previously to little or no avail. And you still need to prove to others how wonderful you are. On and on with thoughts of what is impossible in your life. Creating an emotional/physical dam that holds back your new being for some future time when it might be true for you.

Everything you have learned and continue to learn about your current capabilities is dedicated to the future. “I’ll be happy when this happens.” “I’ll change my situation or ways when that happens.”

That future has arrived. Yet, most of you are too frightened to alter much in your life. This final leap into the new—your being as it has always been except when of the Earth—is too frightening. Thoughts of failure, disappointment, and too good to be true continue to ramble around your thoughts as if everyone but you can do and be what they want.

Your new world is not a fantasy or wishful thinking. It is you now. Allow yourself to accept your new thoughts and actions. Allow yourself to step outside your 3D world of limitations and what-ifs. Allow yourself to be in all your glory.

Despite the information we of the Universes have provided, you pretend that you are Clark Kent when, in reality, you are Superman, Superwoman, or Superbeing without limitations and without kryptonite, except for your ongoing belief in your limited reality.

Jump, run, dance into what you are now capable of. You’re no longer peeking out the window at the fabulous life of others. It is time to create what you want and need without fear, angst, or worry. Some of you even worry that you will be isolated as a braggart or a person you find disappointing if you become yourself.

So you wait, watch, and fear that becoming you is TOO MUCH for your tiny world. It is – because you are no longer just of the Earth; you are a Universal being with all the accouterments that includes. But then, the same is true for millions.

You have created a new race of humans similar to the historical jumps you now tout, like the Stone Age, the Bronze Age, or whatever historical Earth period, human skills were enhanced through trial and error.

You have completed your trial and error phases throughout the eons. It is time for the new human you and your cohorts created to emerge in all your shining glory. So be it. Amen.

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Dear Ones,

Maybe you recently jumped between dimensions and frequencies or traveled to places you never before explored, or perhaps not. You and your cohorts opened the Universal gate the past few days, allowing you to jump when or if you feel comfortable doing so.

Even though this gate has always been available because you are all Universal beings, your inner being stopped you from opening that gate while of 3D Earth because it would have been too confusing. Much like you did not read Shakespeare’s works when you were eight years old because the meaning of Shakespeare’s words would have likely been beyond your comprehension skills.

Some days, Universal Travel might seem interesting or exciting. On other days, it might be too complicated to attempt. You have freed yourself from the Earth’s boundaries of limited exploration. Now, free yourself from expectations of immediately zooming hither and yon unless it feels joyful.

Nothing disappears if you do not travel within the next few days, weeks, or years. Like earth travel, you can travel through dimensions, frequencies, or times whenever or wherever you like, but that does not mean you have to.

Many question why you might want to travel through dimensions, frequencies, or times. There is no exact answer for that, any more than you can fully explain why you do not wish to travel beyond your community while your sibling is a world traveler. Everything you decide and explore is because your inner being is drawing you to it. The result of that exploration is a more clearly defined personal path.

En masse, you decided to explore outside the 3D boundaries you adhered to for the eons you have been of Earth. That quest opened the fields that were part of your being when you were not of Earth.

You have extended your Earth knowledge into the Universal spheres.

You might be dissatisfied with your current life because it feels limiting. Or, you might decide that your current life meets your needs. There are no longer limits on who you are or are becoming. So, a friend might jump timelines and find your stay-at-home activities boring. Exactly as it should be because, unlike the cookie-cutter lives you lived when you were of 3D Earth, there are no longer any limits.

Your Universal gate of dimensions, frequencies, and time will remain open forever.

Welcome to the Universes with all the variety and excitement that phrase entails. You might need to rest before you venture out to a new experience. Or opt to explore something new as you complete your day-to-day activities. There are no longer boundaries, shoulds, gates, windows, or doors that stop you from exploring whatever you wish, whenever you want.

Perhaps you wonder when you will find the time to explore as much as you wish. Once you opened that Universal gate, you, en masse, also opened your being to a more extensive personal diversity. So, part of you might be traveling to another planet while easily maintaining your daily responsibilities.

You have allowed yourself to bifurcate while in an Earth physical form.

Previously, even those who channeled or were healers limited their scope and area. Not because they had to, but because shifting beyond that would have been too confusing in a 3D world.

Those gates and limitations have gone by the wayside now that you have transitioned beyond 3D. In truth, those gates were eliminated the minute you transitioned. But because the resources and activities available were too expansive without some preparation, you en masse decided this last piece of travel expansion needed to wait until you were more comfortable with your new inner being.

You have completed the three big stages of becoming a new you – your outer and inner worlds and now, your Universal world.

Allow yourself to explore without fear of punishment, pain, or banishment.

You are an official Universal Zoomer who can opt to travel extensively or not at all, as was true in your 3D world. The difference is your travel itinerary can now include Universal explorations instead of only the Earth. You are new, and so are your travel options. So be it. Amen.

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“Adjusting to New Inner Workings” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Dear Ones,

What was supposed to happen recently likely did not, and that which was not supposed to happen happened. Missed appointments, incorrect directions, and mixed messages created complete confusion.

You are flipping in and out of time zones—here this morning but not this afternoon—and returning later in the day. This, like all other recent phases, is confusing. You feel neither here nor there physically, similar to how you felt recently with the people you know and love.

As was true for your previous major shifts, your outer being shifted, then your inner being, and finally, your physicality – so it is now. You are floating in and out of time, dimension, and frequency zones, which is disconcerting to you and those around you, creating a sense of fear and anger. “Why is this happening now? What did I do wrong?”

There is no need for fear or anger, for this phase is merely a glimpse of what can be if you choose. For example, you might explore a particular time or frequency—or not—based on your experiences while doing so for a few minutes in the next few days.

Your selections, based on interest instead of shoulds or have-tos, will enhance your unique path.

Consequently, your current life is probably scattered and not that pleasant. You do not know if you will be on time in the right place with the expected interactions or if you will seemingly waste minutes, hours, or even days as you explore various options.

To create more confusion, your 3D thought processes will not register these times as anything other than uncertainty. Yet, your inner being has checked off another exploration opportunity or negated a particular adventure.

Because the number of adventures you are experiencing daily as you float in and out of times, frequencies, and dimensions would be too confusing, even counter-productive, you cannot interpret these explorations consciously. You would be overwhelmed and unable to choose based on inner interest instead of passing fancy. Once you have fully tapped into that part of your being you are just beginning to discover, you will not need this childish game of “select without direction or understanding.”

You are in an exploratory stage of becoming within, without, and through various timelines, frequencies, and dimensions. Even though you probably believe you could explore all those layers and maintain your daily life, the information you gather will not coalesce for a few weeks.

In a sense, you are taking classes about the new worlds you intend to explore, including geography, history, science, sociology, fishing, gathering, hunting, survival, and language lessons appropriate for that area. Actual exploration is premature until those areas have been accessed and adopted. And you cannot do either until you review your options, as you are now doing.

Your world has morphed into multiple Universes with more options for joy, fun, and exploration than you ever thought possible. So allow yourself to discover something interesting over here and something equally interesting within. You are building a path with concrete interests, interactions, and activities from within instead of outside yourself, as you have for eons.

You are new beings in the Universal sense. Allow that to filter into your being as you float in and out of new activities and adventures without noting them consciously as you once did in 3D.

You are new, and so is everyone who is transitioning. This newness requires new activities, interests, and acceptance of the unknown. Even though you might feel that your life has become haphazard, all is well in your world. It is so for a reason. So be it. Amen.

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Adjusting to New Inner Workings

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you fear joy can never be prominent in your life, that what you feel now is all there is. You are reverting to 3D fears that are no longer part of your world.

You might also feel lopsided or uncomfortable because you continue to shed what was and are not yet comfortable with what is becoming. It is like upgrading your computer software. Even though you soon adjust to the new capabilities, initially, an upgrade tends to feel unwieldy and uncomfortable.

You are in the awkward stages of adjusting to your new being with all the ramifications such a leap into the new entails. The same is true for all who wish to evolve, so interactions are not as simple or loving as you expect, encouraging feelings of loneliness. And if you live alone, you feel isolated even with your computers, books, nature, and television. You are in the 3D teen stage: “No one understands me, and no one likes me.”

Perhaps this message makes you angry. Where is the joy the Universes dangled in front of you for months or years? When does this shifting stop long enough for you to feel more than a few minutes of joy?

Just as was true for the progression of inner security created with 3D aging, this shift from 3D adult to new you is a process.

You have all the necessary inner workings. It is now a matter of adjusting to those inner shifts.

Some of you will or have adjusted more rapidly than others – as was true when you were a teenager. So some of you feel/seem very much like a new you adult while others struggle to become more mature. Please remember that those who seemed so mature when you struggled with your 3D teen maturity spurt were not that different from you once you fully accessed your personhood. So it is now. This is a short race – not of years or decades, but weeks and months. The earth does not have or need years to evolve, as was true when you were a teen trying to negotiate your entrance into adulthood.

Granted, much of your time before transitioning seemed to be clearing, and your current feelings seem so similar. The difference is that your 3D clearings were about letting go of pieces of your former earth lives that affected your transition. You have transitioned. Now, you are positioning and repositioning your new skills and interests—a task that requires as much energy as your 3D teen shifts.

So you feel as if you are in the midst of a never-ending adjustment, forgetting everything you achieved and worrying that your joy will never return or appear. Like buyer’s remorse after moving from one home to another with thoughts of “I knew where everything was in my former home, and now I can’t find anything” and on and on, comparing your former environment to the new environment that feels all wrong even though it better suites your needs.

You are part of the new, never a comfortable position initially, even though it is growth or a shift for the better. Allow yourself to adjust to this new you, including accepting the learning curve, which is a natural process from the comfortable to the new.

You are in the right place internally, as is everyone who has transitioned. Stop trying to force yourself into joy and out of discomfort or fear. You are evolving not just from one 3D stage to another but from one being to another. Your internal being is no longer your 3D being, as is true for all who have transitioned.

You are trying to find your center and beingness while negating what was.

Even though you might feel you have failed or your struggles to shift the earth and yourself from 3D to beyond have been for naught, you are a new being trying to find your place in a confusing world. Many have transitioned, but there are still a number who remain staunchly in 3D, expecting you and others to support them. This is similar to a younger sibling becoming angry or confused when their older sibling displays teen angst.

Just as was true during your 3D teen angst stage, you do not necessarily understand logically why you need to say, do, or feel something. You just know this is who you are or are becoming. Allow yourself to flow into your new being and allow the same for others – without fear, rancor, or anger. What was is no more. So be it. Amen.

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Caretaking Exhaustion or Discomfort?

Dear Ones,

Your life is changing in ways you did not anticipate. You are discovering that you are different than you thought you were or would be. There’s a feeling of rightness, yet it’s sharper than you anticipated. You, the caretaker, are becoming discerning, something you are not used to.

Even though you are changing, those you caretake are not necessarily letting go easily. “I need you” is their cry in words and actions. So, you often feel torn between your former caretaking role and your current need for independence. It is not an easy place to be.

Those who demand you caretake them do so because it is easier than finding their strengths. Of course, there are times when others, including you, need physical caretaking. But those times are much less frequent than you assume.

Isn’t it easier to have someone provide you with what you wish? So it is for those you care for.

That is unless you find the balance that allows you the freedom to be and provides those who demand your caretaking skills with the basics, including the love you feel for them.

Some of you claim you have no ties to or love for the person you are caring for. We of the Universes beg to differ. You would not be in their orbit or frequency if you did not have a heart attachment.

Of course, there are love-based relationships enacted in rage or anger. But at this point in your transition, you would exit any relationship that required pretending to care if you disliked that person.

Some proclaim you continue such a relationship even though you have no love for that being. If this is so, perhaps you need to ask yourself why? Does your love of human life, fear, payback, or similar emotions force you to continue that caretaking role? Or is it fear that you will have to depend on your transition skills to create a new life if you change or exit that relationship?

Caretaking another so they do not need to expand their skills or interests because you provide all they think they need is not helpful for either of you.

This is a time of expansion. Many, if not most, of you, acknowledged new pieces of your being that encouraged you to move forward into a new life. This life does not include caretaking others to the point that you have become their servant, fulfilling their expectations despite abilities they have not yet felt the need to develop.

Of course, you believe you are merely doing what needs to be done. But is that accurate? Do you wake up every morning excited to provide the services to others you have become accustomed to? Or are you discovering that waking up to that regimen is becoming less pleasant and more tedious – even exhausting?

It is time to create a win/win for both of you. If you wish to help that being in love, create the resources that provide the care they need and the freedom you long for.

Implement your new skills. Create an environment that is correct for both of you. Home care? Daycare? Treatment? Education? New environment? Independence?

What will change your relationship from caretaking to independence for you both? Not necessarily from one another, but independence from waking up to a day of caretaking?

What if the person you are caretaking is unwilling to care for themselves? How do you push them out of the nest? The first question must be, “Do you want to push them out of the nest?” At what point are you sacrificing yourself to care for someone who refuses to care for themselves? Why are you doing that? Is it because it feels right, or do you feel you should? And if you think you should caretake that person even if they are not willing or unable to care for themselves, what do you need to create to free yourself from that prison?

You suffered, complained, and worried in the past, most often in silence, because that was how it was supposed to be. Those social rules no longer apply. What could you create to free yourself emotionally and physically from that caretaking burden?

Many of you are now visualizing yourself as a bad person for even thinking of creating enough resources to enable that person you caretake the freedom to be, as well as yourself. If you created a new environment, financial resources, or different emotional ties, would that provide freedom for both of you? Or are you more comfortable than you realize in your current situation?

You have new skills; use them.

You will not be a bad, selfish, or mean person for freeing both of you in whatever way feels most right. Even though his or her life will expand when you do so, the being you are caretaking will fight that freedom because they will have to change. And change, even for the better, is often difficult for humans. For example, if you dread caring for another being, you have forgotten the new creation skills you have not yet used.

Allow yourself to be. The person you are caring for will adjust as necessary – and likely expand their life once you let go of the familiar and expected. So be it. Amen.

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Dear Ones,

The correct answer for you today may not be tomorrow or the day after. You will evolve a bit before you establish sides or the right actions for yourself.

The concepts you are forming now are more similar to the beliefs of a young teen than of a 3D adult. Most often, a teen senses actions or words as either right or wrong with very few gray areas. But this is a time of many gray areas, confusing you and others trying to clarify beliefs.

Perhaps you are part of a political party but are close friends with someone from a different political party. Even though most of what they relay to you is correct and acceptable, there are places neither of you discuss, for their opinions are so different than yours. If you want to maintain contact with that individual, you close off some of your beliefs when you interact with them. If you do not close off some thoughts, you will not accept any of their beliefs despite both of you trying to avoid specific topics.

But now, you are beginning to select friends based on their frequency instead of beliefs. If your friendship was based on their ideas, you would never be able to interact with them despite not discussing specific topics. Their beliefs would resemble painting a big stop sign on their forehead. Instead, you allow a slow sign to be acceptable.

You are maturing into your new being—not all at once, but slowly in your thought processes and rapidly in ours. Instead of basing your interactions on concepts, you are beginning to select friendships and interactions because of similar frequencies – a system you have never before utilized while of the earth.

Some of you declare that romantic love is frequency-based, which is valid to a certain extent – at first. But as the relationship develops, those little inconsistencies that do not agree with your inner thoughts are often the cause of the relationship ending, no matter how attracted you once felt.

Although there are differences, the frequencies between you and those you enjoy interacting with now are so similar that the differences do not matter. That is not to say you will endure a relationship that is not right for you because of specific aspects, but that the differences you discover are not that important to either of you.

These new relationship interactions are different from your 3D actions in many ways. Most importantly, you feel comfortable with a certain being no matter what they verbalize or adhere to when you are not there. You allow differences because their overall being flows with yours. Perhaps not forever, but for now, you are exploring that relationship in joy despite this or that belief.

You are all on unique paths, some of which are parallel to yours and others perpendicular. Those on parallel paths are becoming increasingly acceptable to you. Those on perpendicular paths are still too ‘out there’ for you. Even though you will someday soon, you cannot yet find commonalities with those on a perpendicular path to yours.

Perhaps an analogy would be befriending someone in college who selected a different major than you. Despite that difference, they are an essential part of your life. But once you graduate, you seldom interact with them. That friend with different majors is not terrible; they are merely so different interest-wise that you have little in common.

You are finding new interests and friends because their frequencies are more similar to yours than not. As you mature, differences will become enjoyable because you will allow more gray interest areas into your being. And so it is. Amen.

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