Your highest decisions often will involve embracing change. Your ego self is invested in things staying the same, but your soul knows expansion is the way.
So how do you get your ego on board? Reassure it! Treat the unknown like an adventure; like a treasure hunt. If you take the time to lovingly guide all aspects of you forward, there will finally be enough cooperation from all parts of you that you can finally see where surrender and flow have been trying to take you.
You might think of it as trying to take a family vacation with small children ~ a wise parent plans in advance on how to keep the more challenging travelers comfortable and occupied until you arrive where you wish to go, and the real fun can begin.